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Dating Tips for Xmas - How to Flirt in the Festive Season? (Part 1)

As we all know flirting is all about letting someone know you are interested in them, being relaxed enough to have fun chatting about light hearted things, with the plus factor of making someone feel a little bit special. It brightens up the occasion, and can sometimes be the start of something beautiful. Make the most of all the Christmas drinks and parties you may be invited to – wear a brightly colored dress, scarf or shirt – something that suits your coloring, so that you stand out (re...

November 23, 2013

How To Quiet that Inner Voice on a Date?

I was chatting recently with one of my clients who was finding it hard to relax when she was going on a date. Sometimes when we go on a date our inner voice is chattering – he's gorgeous, he's so successful, why is he interested in me? We can sometimes be even more negative than that! What is the cause of this inner voice? Well, it's to do with your level of confidence, what you think of yourself in relation to the people around you. Imagine a professional dancer dancing with other profession...

August 7, 2013

Dating Advice - Dating Mr Wrong - Part 2

Women normally know they are dating the wrong guy. But what about when it's the "right guy" and he lives abroad – Does that mean he's not the right guy? Or not? Ellie was involved in a long distance relationship where they had been together and then he decide it wasn't for him – though they were still talking and emailing for hours every day a year later & she was still very emotionally involved. She was convinced he was the right guy for her in every way. She was finding it hard to let...

June 6, 2013

Dating Advice - Dating Mr Wrong?

Sometimes dating the wrong guy can be really insightful – you can learn a lot about yourself. A lot about what you like most, a lot about what you don't like and also a lot about what's most important to you. Sometimes it's only in these situations that what's right for you becomes clear. A dating opportunity can come up, maybe you've not defined what it is you're looking for and you don't want to plan – you think I've never tried this before – why not? Monica age 29 was dating a 48 year...

April 8, 2013

International Women’s Day

It's the week of International Women's Day. We are living in a time when women have more choice than ever before. I grew up in New Zealand – it was the land where the women first got the vote in 1893 – where of the last 15 years 11 of the years women were the leaders of the country, where I was told I could have it all when I was growing up.And indeed it was true – one of my friends became the Minister of Women's and Youth affairs at the age of 26. I was very fortunate to be told as I was...

March 7, 2013

Why Women Postpone their Love Life - Is Now Never the Right Time for Your Love Life? A Dating Coach Explains

One of the reasons I became a Dating & Relationship Coach is because I spent a lot of my life alone, I spent a lot of my life single. Initially I was focused on my career as an accountant, that was my priority, the relationship could wait. Then I was involved in a property project – a fixer upper that took several years and my time went by trying to resolve it. And all those years I always thought I would have a relationship soon, that by Christmas, by summer, after the project was done I woul...

February 8, 2013

Dating Advice for the New Year - Have a Story that Empowers You in 2013!

Christmas has just been and gone. The season of joy and festivity – and season's greetings – where people often overindulge in wine, in food, in champagne and it's a new year starting. And I wonder if you have made any changes in your love life this past year – if you are in a relationship, is your relationship closer, deeper, more intimate than this time last year? If you are single – what are your plans for 2013? – if you are wanting to be in a relationship and it hasn't happened fo...

January 2, 2013

Why am I Single? (Part 2) A Dating Coach Explains

Here are several more of the most common reasons women are single… If you are single, ask yourself – do any of these apply to me? 1. Having a very narrow criteria about who they can love – some single women have a very narrow idea about the kind of man they can date and start a relationship with. Jane was only interested in dating actors and wouldn't even consider speaking to men who did not meet this criteria in social and dating situations. She was occasionally being introduced to actor...

December 6, 2012

Why am I Single? A Dating Coach Explains

'The most commonly asked question attractive, successful and intelligent women ask is….' Why am I single?' Some of the most common reasons include: 1. Your love life is not a priority. Despite saying they want a relationship; some women are so focused on their career they don't make time for a social life and meeting and dating men. They go to work early, they work hard all day, and they leave late. They can be attractive and successful and go home and be alone. i.e. Sarah had a very demandi...

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